Baba
Sexually weak Wts
Note: This letter is only for those who have reverence for Sadguru Baba Shrii Shrii Anandamurti ji and try to follow His Ananda Marga ideology. Alert! After reading this letter tamasik sexually weak minded wts may become furious so watch out
Namaskar,
Here is an important topic that is vital for the health, stature and well-being of our Wt cadre. You have probably seen our avadhutas and avadhutikas conducting Ananda Marga marriage ceremonies. This letter examines whether this is appropriate or contrary to the codes and ethics of being a wholetimer Dada and Didi.
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A conflict of interest if Wts engage in marriage dealings
Here are specific reasons why our Wt Dadas and Didis must not engage in marriage ceremonies.
1. At DMCs before 1990, family acaryas were involved day-long in conducting marriages - not our whole timer Dadas and Didis. That is one of the key duties of family acaryas, and verily there should be a maximum number of family acaryas for this very purpose.
2. Wts are to create Wts from our unmarried youths, and family acaryas are to create family margiis from our unmarried youths. Thus, both Wts and family acaryas are drawing upon the same pool of candidates. In a sense, the Wts and family acaryas are in a recruiting competition with one another. Both are trying to convince our same margiis youths to become either a (a) wholetimer or (b) married person. But if suddenly, Wts are earning money by arranging marriages, then that creates a conflict of interest for them. They will not attend to their allotted duty of creating Wts because there is a financial reward for conducting marriages. By this way, they are going against their Wt code of conduct and shirking their duties and responsibilities. As a result, the number of new Wts is shrinking day by day.
3. At present, family margiis are not getting family acaryships due to exploitation by some Wt Dadas and Didis. Those Wts think that, “If I attend to the duties of family acaryas by conducting marriages then I will get double respect.” But this is the wrong approach. Instead there should be maximum family acaryas for arranging and performing marriages.
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Why some wts leave their Wt ship & marry themselves
4. The problem with Wt Dadas and Didis performing marriages is that some become so psychically involved in that endeavour that they themselves eventually leave their Wt-ship to marry someone. The operative factor is: As you think, you become. Thus Wts must not be psychically plunged in arranging, conducting, and performing marriages. That will undermine and threaten their very existence.
Marriage is related with family affairs. It is the duty of family acaryas to arrange and solemnize marriage etc. It should be done by family acaryas. And if there is a shortage of family acaryas, then more family acaryas should be created so Wts can be given freedom to do their own duty, that of creating Wts.
If someone takes another’s duty, it creates problems. The duty of a dog is to provide security to the home. And if that same work is performed instead by a donkey, it will create a mess. In the middle of the night if thieves came and the dogs kept quiet, and instead the donkeys started braying and calling out “hee-haw, hee-haw”, it will not be very good. By hearing the braying of donkeys in the middle of the night, the house owner will not understand what in the world is going on. In frustration he may beat the donkey for creating disturbance in the middle of the night. And the thieves will take away all the goods. Similarly, in Ananda Marga, Baba has separated the duty. For presiding over marriages etc, Baba has created family acaryas. In this Wts should not poke their nose.
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Yes, WTs from Centre level should control the marriage board along with the family acaryas. But for arranging marriages, it is the duty of family Margiis. Due to not following this rule, we have lost many Wts, unfortunately. Wts should increase the number of Wts, by inspiring youths not to marry but to dedicate their lives for service to humanity at large.
Against the code of avadhuta / avadhutika
5. Sadguru Baba has given the below rule for all avadhutas, avadhutikas, and Wts:
Baba has given the following conduct rule for Wts-- “One should not look at the face of the opposite sex.” (1)
According to Guru, no Wt Dada or Didi should look at the face of the opposite sex. Yet when conducting any marriage ceremony those Wts are sitting directly across from the opposite sex and staring directly at them. So those avadhuta and avadhutikas performing marriages are contravening the above conduct rule. Actually they are fake avadhutas / avadhutikas etc.
Sadguru Baba has given the rule and it should be strictly followed, but they are going against the rule by performing marriage ceremonies. If our own Wt Dadas and Didis do not follow this Wt conduct rule, then who is going to follow it: Priests, mullahs, rabbis, ministers etc? This code of conduct is for our wholetimer Dada and Didis and they must abide by it.
Conclusion
By all of the above it is very evident that there is absolutely no scope for our Wt Dadas and Didis to participate in any aspect of the marriage process. This is solely the work of family acaryas and family margiis. About this there is no doubt.
In Him,
Sahadeva
Unfortunate Happening
Note: Many times X or Y Wt has thrown away their saffron garb and married another Wt. There are many causes behind this degeneration, but one of the main causes is they are overindulgent in arranging marriages. And due to this their mind degenerates. That is why our Wt Dadas and Didis must not be involved in arranging and performing marriages / weddings. It is wholly against our Ananda Marga system, contrary to the ethic of being an avadhuta / avadhutika, and the results of having Wts involved in conducting marriages are horrific.
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References
1. 37 Wt Worker’s Rules, Point #15
Raising girls in modernity
Ananda Marga philosophy states, “Those who want to keep their daughters away from the “infection of modernity”, and so are reluctant to send them to schools and colleges, perhaps do not realize that modernism had already entered into the privacy of their households quite a long time ago without their knowledge. So their efforts to save their daughters as well as themselves by hanging window curtains or by covering their daughters with veils are entirely farcical. The trend of the age is irrepressible, for in this too there is dynamism. It is the duty of the wise to channelize it to the path of benevolence by applying their own wisdom to the task. To thwart the spirit of the age is beyond the power of any individual or any collective force. That dynamic spirit of the age – that Zeitgeist – speeds ahead unabated with all force, throwing down anyone who tries to stand and thwart it, and that floored, sprawling creature with imbecilic and glum eyes keeps staring vacantly at progress.” (1)
Reference
1. Human Society - 1, Social Justice
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By all of the above it is very evident that there is absolutely no scope for our Wt Dadas and Didis to participate in any aspect of the marriage process. This is solely the work of family acaryas and family margiis. About this there is no doubt.
In Him,
Sahadeva
Unfortunate Happening
Note: Many times X or Y Wt has thrown away their saffron garb and married another Wt. There are many causes behind this degeneration, but one of the main causes is they are overindulgent in arranging marriages. And due to this their mind degenerates. That is why our Wt Dadas and Didis must not be involved in arranging and performing marriages / weddings. It is wholly against our Ananda Marga system, contrary to the ethic of being an avadhuta / avadhutika, and the results of having Wts involved in conducting marriages are horrific.
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References
1. 37 Wt Worker’s Rules, Point #15
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== Section 2: Important Teaching ==
Ananda Marga philosophy states, “Those who want to keep their daughters away from the “infection of modernity”, and so are reluctant to send them to schools and colleges, perhaps do not realize that modernism had already entered into the privacy of their households quite a long time ago without their knowledge. So their efforts to save their daughters as well as themselves by hanging window curtains or by covering their daughters with veils are entirely farcical. The trend of the age is irrepressible, for in this too there is dynamism. It is the duty of the wise to channelize it to the path of benevolence by applying their own wisdom to the task. To thwart the spirit of the age is beyond the power of any individual or any collective force. That dynamic spirit of the age – that Zeitgeist – speeds ahead unabated with all force, throwing down anyone who tries to stand and thwart it, and that floored, sprawling creature with imbecilic and glum eyes keeps staring vacantly at progress.” (1)
Reference
1. Human Society - 1, Social Justice
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