Baba
Mahaprayan (Death) of a senior family acarya didi
Namaskar,
It
 is with much sadness and respect that I share with you the mahaprayan 
(death) of Ac. Kishori Didi who died yesterday at 5am IST in Pune 
(Maharashtra, India). Respected Didiji was well-known by the nickname 
"Dafaliwali Didi". She received this nickname because she used to 
regularly sing devotional songs with her musical instrument "Dafali" 
during DMC, as well as on the occasion of  other Ananda Marga 
gatherings.
Her husband was Acarya Visvambhar ji - who underwent
 his mahaprayan (death) a few years ago. She and her husband were 
originally from Samastipur (Bihar, India).
Ac. Kishori Didi was a
 true devotee of the Lord Shrii Shrii Anandamutiji. And she had a 
tremendous impact on the growth and well-being of our Ananda Marga 
society over her many years active in AMPS. On this occasion of her 
mahaprayan, she will be missed by many.
May we all take solace 
in the fact that respected Ac. Kishori Didi was a devotee of Sadguru 
Baba. Certainly she will attain mukti or moksa, accordingly. Baba will 
lovingly bestow His grace and take her under His Supreme shelter.
With deepest regards.
Namaskar,
at His lotus feet,
Ma'la'
Note 1: Mahaprayan (death day) is only for humans
Parama Purusa is eternalHere
 it should be qualified that there is both real mahaprayan and fake 
mahaprayan. Real mahaprayan marks the death of any ordinary human being.
 This is the proper use of the term: To note a person's     departure 
from this earth. That is the meaning of the mahaprayan term and that is 
the standard way the term is used in Indian languages.
Then there
 is the fake, or so-called, or dogmatic mahaprayan. That is when certain
 vested interests try to apply the mahaprayan term to Parama Purusa 
Himself. This is grossly inappropriate because when Parama Purusa Baba 
is that Divine Entity who is beginningless and endless and resides 
always in our heart, then it is entirely wrong to proclaim that He is 
gone.
That is why rational margiis are protesting; because the 
Oct 21st program is so-called mahaprayan. So-called means that something
 is fake. Parama Purusa is eternal, thus for some vested interests to 
declare "mahaprayan of Parama Purusa" is nothing but so-called 
mahaprayan.
Mahaprayan only really happens in the case of human beings, not Parama Purusa.
Note 2: Mahaprayan comes from the Islamic tradition
*
 Mahaprayan (Death): Many are aware that mahaprayan (death) is the 
common term used in India and especially in Bengal to describe the death
 of any human being, even ordinary people. In that way, the obituary 
columns of the newspapers of Bengal regularly cite the mahaprayan 
(death) of various persons of society who died or passed away.
Some
 may get confused and wrongly think that the word 'mahaprayan' (death) 
is one extraordinarily devotional term to be used in association with 
Parama Purusa. But that is not at all the case. Rather to do so is only 
to undermine the eternal presence of Parama Purusa. That is why no 
devotees ever use the word 'mahaprayan' in reference to Lord Shiva or 
Lord Krsna. Because Lord Shiva and Lord Krsna exist eternally. Then 
there is no question of Their mahaprayan (death).
Baba is Parama Purusa so He is eternal and there is no question of His mahaprayan.
Here
 it should be known that the convention of an annual death day ceremony 
(i.e. shraddhainjali or mahaprayan) is a foundation of the Islamic 
tradition. Muslims are well known for this, and their approach of an 
annual death day ceremony was adopted by those in Tiljala. So no one 
should think that mahaprayan is some type of sacred event. It is done on
 the death day anniversary of Muslims.
And for those who need 
still more technical proof then all this can be clarified quite readily 
by referencing the dictionary. Specifically in the Samsad 
Bengali-English dictionary on page 742. Checking there it will be 
confirmed that the word 'mahaprayan' means death. Which is why it used 
to refer to the passing away of even common citizens.
Note 3: Story: - sitting on Baba's lap means died?
(contributed by one margii)
 
Recently after dharmacakra, a senior margii was recounting his experiences of having dharma samiiksa with Baba.
He
 said, "After being punished by Baba, then He called me close and placed
 me on His lap - I remained there for some time soaking up His love - 
and He blessed me."
We all enjoyed hearing about his personal 
account with Baba during dharma samiiksa. When he finished telling his 
story, there was a call for questions. Various people posed their 
queries.
"How did Baba bring you back to life?Towards the end, one new margii raised his hand and asked, "How did Baba bring you back to life?"
Everyone
 stared at the new margii in amazement. There was a look of astonishment
 all around - people were really shocked to hear him say this.
The new sadhaka sensed that something was awry.
He
 said very matter-of-factly, "I thought that sitting on Baba's Lap means
 that he (the margii) died - that is why I asked that question."
This
 was quite eye-opening for those of us in the room: Through our language
 and expression we had unknowingly taught someone to think that being on
 Baba's lap is the equivalent of death. Because it seems that nowadays 
people only use the phrase "Baba's lap" when a person has died, such as 
"Let him rest peacefully in Baba's lap", as if in order to sit on Baba’s
 lap one has to die. But that is false. Sincere sadhakas regularly sit 
on Baba’s lap in their meditation. It is His grace. It is just like a 
child need not die in order to sit on hi father’s lap.
Sitting on Baba's lap
must not only refer to deathAt
 that moment I thought that everyone, new and old, should be clear about
 the real and devotional meaning of this phrase, "being on Baba's lap." 
It should not become stigmatized such that it only means death. Because 
in its true sense, the phrase "being on Baba's lap" really does carry a 
highly devotional and sweet feeling.
It is just like how a small 
child sits on its parent's lap. In a similar way, a spiritual child 
(human being) sits on the lap of Parama Purusa. By Baba's grace this can
 happen anytime in one's sadhana, especially in dhyana. Such a phrase 
then should not become  stigmatized because too many people only use it 
at the time of death.
We should be careful that we do not relegate "Baba's lap" only to the point of death.
The
 connotation of death must not become synonymous with "being on Baba's 
lap." Because the phrase - "being on Baba's lap" - is a devotional 
experience that can happen today itself in sadhana, and especially in 
dhyana. The phrase "being on Baba's lap" should not lose this quality 
and only mean death. It should not meet the same dark fate as happened 
with the term harijan. Nowadays, for the occasion of death / mahaprayan,
 99.9% of the time people use the phrase "on Baba's lap", and for 
devotional stories the phrase "on Baba's lap" is used 0.01% of the time.
 That is why - for devotional purposes - this phrase is already included
 on the endangered species list.
Must not meet same fate as "harijan"
As
 we all know, these days in India nobody uses the term harijan to mean 
"a devotee". Whereas 70 years ago it was used in that way. The term 
harijan did mean bhakta. But ever since the time of Gandhi when he glued
 the harijan term to the lowest so-called caste, i.e so-called 
untouchables, nobody uses the the harijan to mean devotee. Never. 
Because the term harijan has been stigmatized to mean "untouchable". 
Nobody uses it to mean "devotee", but that is the original and true 
meaning of the word.
The phrase, "sitting on Baba's lap", should 
not meet a similar fate. It should not lose its devotional quality and 
just refer to one's death. That will be very negative.
Baba would bless devotees and place them on His lap
There
 are thousands of recorded stories by sadhakas where they use the 
phrase, "on Baba's lap", when describing their experiences of being with
 Baba: He used to bless them and bring them on His lap.     People 
should understand the deeply devotional value of this expression, and 
not just think that Baba's lap means death, i.e. that you can only sit 
on His lap at the time of death. Still today there are thousands of 
margiis walking this earth who sat in Baba's lap. And not only that, 
there are countless more sadhakas who were blessed by Baba in dreams and
 dhyana wherein they sat in His lap. And still today this deeply 
devotional experience is attainable by sadhakas, by His grace.
There
 are so many ways an aspirant can reach unto Baba's lap including in 
sadhana and especially during dhyana. That is the main idea that should 
be preserved. Sadhana is a devotional practice and one can sit on Baba's
 lap in dhyana. We should make it cent-per-cent clear to one and all 
that the phrase, "sitting on Baba's lap", does not mean death.
Dogma:
now "on Baba's lap" only used for death
 
Here
 are quoted lines from recently posted emails on various forums, wherein
 the writer uses the phrase - "in Baba's lap" - with the occasion of 
death:
- "May he rest in HIS loving lap of eternity."
- "We are sure that Baba has taken him in His loving lap."
- "May his soul rest in Baba's lap forever."
- "Let her rest peacefully in Baba's Lap - which she always desired."
- "now he is in beloved Baba's lap"
- "May his soul get peaceful place in His lap"
- "He is now in BÁBÁ'S loving lap"
- "May Baba bless him with a seat in His lap."
- "May BABA accept him in HIS divine lap!"
- "May Baba take him in his eternal loving lap."
- "Please keep him on Your lap forever."
All
 of the above lines are commonly written in eulogizing the deceased. Of 
course, it is fine to write like that. Here the point is that this same 
phrase "in Baba's lap" should also be used when describing one's 
devotional practices and experiences. But these days mostly it is used 
in a eulogy and rarely used to recount one's devotional experiences - 
unfortunately. By this way, the phrase "in Baba's lap" is being misused 
and step by step the real meaning is being forgotten as now people more 
commonly use the phrase to eulogize those who have died, and much less 
so to express their devotional feeling. Unfortunately, the meaning and 
inner spirit of the phrase is getting lost.
Here again is the central idea:
The
 connotation of death must not become synonymous with "being on Baba's 
lap." Because the phrase - "being on Baba's lap" - is a devotional 
experience that can happen today itself in sadhana, and especially in 
dhyana. The phrase "being on Baba's lap" should not lose this quality 
and only mean death. It should not meet the same dark fate as happened 
with the term harijan. Nowadays, for the occasion of death / mahaprayan,
 99.9% of the time people use the phrase "on Baba's lap", and for 
devotional stories the phrase "on Baba's lap" is used 0.01% of the time.
 That is why - for devotional purposes - this phrase is already included
 on the endangered species list.