Pseudo Didi & Young Man
Namaskar,
This letter begins with a series of tragic accounts between foster moms / supervising adults and the youths in their care. Shockingly, a similar thing is going within our Wt cadre where one Didi is living with a 21-year-old young man. First please review the following incidents. Kindly understand that this segment does contain graphic language and sensitive terminology. Although, the stronger words have been edited.
Case studies:
Having xxxx with a 13-year-old foster child
[A] REDELL COUNTY, N.C. — Police arrested a 25-year-old Statesville woman for [living like wife-husband on select occasions] with a 15-year-old boy. Investigators with the Iredell County Sheriff’s office say Wendy Mathena is charged with a long list of offenses including: statutory xxxx, taking indecent liberties with a minor, xxxx activity by a substitute parent and one count of statutory xxxx offense. They later arrested her and put her in the Iredell Co. Detention Center on $105,000 bond. According to police, Mathena was a licensed therapeutic foster care provider. This means, she was qualified to care for children with higher needs.” (Courtesy of Time Warner Cable News)
[B] BROWNWOOD — The former foster mom accused of having xxxx with a 13-year-old foster child in her care, and having a child by the boy, was found guilty today. The jury deliberated less than an hour before returning a guilty verdict about 11:30 a.m. against Phylecia Humphries, 26, for xxxx assault of a child. She faces two to 20 years in prison and a $10,000 fine for the second degree felony offense. (Courtesy of Reporter News)
[C] CARY, N.C. (WTVD) – A Cary mom was arrested and is accused of having xxxx with a minor in her care. The victim is a teenage boy who was under the care of 30-year-old Crystal Ritter, but police say he is not her biological child. The investigation began in November after someone at the boy’s school saw something they thought was inappropriate. Cary police say if the tipster had not called social services, the alleged affair would still be going on. (Courtesy of Piemont News)
The 16-year-old male engaging in xxxx with foster mother
[D] LICKING COUNTY, Ohio – Authorities arrested a former foster mother Sunday for alleged xxxx abuse on a minor in her care. On November 3, the Licking County Sheriff’s Office received a referral from the Tuscarawas County Children Services that indicated a male juvenile was making xxxx
x-abuse allegations towards his former foster mother, Marcina Samberson. The 16-year-old male disclosed engaging in xxxx conduct with Samberson, 49, while living in her home as a foster child between July 17. Samberson also admitted to engaging in xxxx conduct with the male juvenile while he was in her care. Samberson was arrested. (Courtesy of NBC News)
x-abuse allegations towards his former foster mother, Marcina Samberson. The 16-year-old male disclosed engaging in xxxx conduct with Samberson, 49, while living in her home as a foster child between July 17. Samberson also admitted to engaging in xxxx conduct with the male juvenile while he was in her care. Samberson was arrested. (Courtesy of NBC News)
[E] WINDSOR, Ont. An Ontario woman is headed to jail after she was sentenced for having xxx with a minor a boy in her foster care. She was his foster mom and was supposed to treat him as she would a child of her own. Instead, she plied him with marijuana and alcohol to get him to “open up.” Then she had xxxx relations with him.
[F] An English teacher in Florida was arrested for having a xxxx relationship with her 17-year-old student, authorities said. Jennifer Christine Fichter, 29, admitted to having xxxx with him many times in her pickup truck this school year while working at the Central Florida Aerospace Academy in Lakeland. Fitcher has been charged with six counts of unlawful xxxx activity with a minor. (Courtesy of NY Daily News)
Young man of 21 lives in didis’ bedroom
No male in Ananda Marga is allowed inside Didi quarters, yet Shubham lives inside the Didis’ inner residence. All because Shubham is linked with one Didi who takes him everywhere – and this has been going on for years. And when this matter is raised with Didi, then she merely pays a cold shoulder and deaf ear. She has her own justification ready in reply. Yet this goes completely against our Ananda Marga way of life where Baba has mandated that there be a strict gender separation.
When our Didis are out in public then they are very disciplined in their conduct, dealing and dress, always covered in their full avadhutika uniform. Naturally though, when in their inner chambers they are more relaxed in what they wear and how they conduct themselves. They may just wear a minimum etc. Moreover, the Didis are known to watch gossipy TV shows, movies, and soap operas, and Shubham is right there along with them – giggling, gossiping, and laughing together.
This is 100% inappropriate for an 21-year-old man – Shubham – to live along with Didis in their inner chambers. It is an infringement on the privacy of Didis, and, it is having a devastating effect on Shubham. It has been noted that Shubham walks and talks in a very feminine way - and acts like a girl. So Shubham himself has been negatively affected. Not only that, due to this unnatural way of living, recently Shubham suffered a serious kidney ailment and he was struggling between life and death.
Didi Dyotona’s infatuation with a young man of 21
Some of you are aware that one central WWD Didi – herein referred to as Didi D – is extremely attached with a young man of 21 years of age, Shubham. The situation is not ordinary – rather quite abnormal. They live together: Sleeping, eating, and going together etc. Didi D and Shubham are very linked with each other. The reason why this is such an important matter is because this has the makings of becoming a systemic issue within our Marga. The likes of which have been the downfall of many religions and spiritual communities. We should not let our Ananda Marga suffer the same fate.
The young man Shubham stays with Didi D always. Wherever Didi D goes Shubham is along side – from one female jagrti, children’s home and school to the next. Generally, the girls in those children’s home are aged 17 - 22. And, wherever he goes, Shubham actually resides inside the Didi quarters - so he is around all those mature home girls as well. Thus he sees and watches so many Didis and home girls when they go for bath, get dressed, and prepare for sleep. The situation is completely abnormal and is a public relations nightmare for Ananda Marga since the general society notices how one mature young man is living in the midst of so many girls and female Wts. And Shubham goes here and there for his own entertainment as well. So the whole scene gives one very poor show. Wherever Shubham goes, the reputation of Ananda Marga suffers terribly.
Conclusion
Sadguru Baba has given very strict guidelines concerning gender separation and He has given pointed guidelines for how our Wts are to conduct themselves. Having one Didi completely attached with a young man undermines that Didi’s role as an avadhutika. And having the young man Shubham live amongst Didis and home girls day and night is a clear violations of Guru’s rules. This situation really needs to be put to a halt.
Namaskar,
In Him,
Kamala
Who is Didi D and young man
In the above account, Didi D refers to Didi Ananda Dyotana who has has a Global post, and Shubham is Shubham the 21 year old man. Earlier, Didi was very close to and linked with Dada Nigamanandji. Since his death, Didiji has seemingly needed some other male figure for her satisfaction. That is why she is keeping Shubham.
Kindly forward this letter to Didi Ananda Dyotana, and if you have her email address please send it to me as well - thank you.
Trick to have AMPS central post
It is well known that depraved Wts (so-called monks) allegedly give huge money to Dada Rudrananda and by that way they get central posts and Dada Rudrananda fights in their favour and propagates their false glory. So this is a type of business for depraved Wts (so-called monks). To get a top post in Rudrananda's cabinet, the following things are needed:
(a) depravity
(b) large donations to Rudrananda
(c) ready to become donkey of Rudrananda so he can ride on you and order you to brutally kick the target that Rudrananda wants to hit
Of the three aforementioned qualities, all three attributions (a, b, c) are a must but in rare cases only having the third quality is enough. If you do not have any of the above three attributions then you are unfit
Duty of margiis & proper Wts
Ananda Marga philosophy states, “Your duty will be to unite the moralists. Let there be two camps. Let there be an open fight. The moralists have been scattered for so long that they could not fight. The united strength of five moralists is much more than the united strength of a hundred immoralists because there is an unholy alliance amongst the latter. Meditation behind closed doors will not do. Gather strength by intuitional practices and unite yourselves against the immoralists.” (1)
Ananda Marga philosophy states, “So your duty is three-fold. Your first duty is to observe morality and to do intuitional practices. Without this you cannot have mental determination. Your next duty is to unite the moralists of the world, otherwise Dharma will not endure. The exploited mass who do not observe Yama and Niyama – the cardinal moral principles – cannot fight against their own sense of frustration. It is therefore necessary to unite the moralists. This will be your real Dharma. You will become great by doing this, because ideation of the Great makes a person great. At the third stage, you will have to mercilessly fight against sin wherever it has taken root in this world. You will have to propagate this mission from door to door.” (2)
Wt conduct rules: sexual relations
Here are Sadguru Baba’s guidelines for all wholetimer Dadas and Didis of the Marga. The below applies to all kinds of sexual dealings including homosexual and heterosexual.
- WT Conduct Rule: "You will protect yourself from sexual weakness and luxury." (WT Conduct Rules, Fourteen Points, pt #12)
- WT Conduct Rule: "One should not look at the face of the opposite sex except at the time of nursing [administering medical care]." (37 Workers Rules, pt #15)
Note: The above conduct rule contains an exception. Here is the explanation. Suppose there is an accident and the injured party is of the opposite sex; the patient has a wound on their face, and a Wt is on the scene to help. When serving the patient of the opposite sex and tending to their wound, that Wt will have to look at their face in order to offer the requisite care needed. Outside of this circumstance, there is no need for any wholetimer to look at the face of the opposite sex. That is why the rule is that if a Wt is talking with the opposite sex then they will look towards the ground and not the face of the opposite sex.
- WT Conduct Rule: "Avadhuta / Avadhutika shall treat every woman of the world...as mother." (32 Rules for Avadhuta, pt #11)
- WT Conduct Rule: "Avadhuta / Avadhutika must not remain in a lonely place with any female." (32 Rules for Avadhuta, pt #13)
- Wt conduct rule: “Under no circumstances should the purity of the mind and body be polluted.” (32 Rules for Avadhutas, point #30)
- WT conduct rule: “Avadhuta must not engage his ears in hearing obscene language or song, touch any rajasika articles, see any depraving entity or picture, or go through any story, novel or picture having even a slight bit of sexual importance... All avadhutas should learn this mantra by heart: O Bhiks´u, O monk. Control your eyes, hearing, smell, tongue (taste), body, lips (speech) and mind. You should have all-round restraint, then you will overcome all pain (32 Rules for Avadhutas, point #32)
The letter, word, and spirit of Guru’s guidelines are that there must be clear and cordial separation between male Wts and female Wts - between members of the opposite sex. And in the case of lesbian / homosexual relations, then those same sex members should be separated. This is highly important to have a successful and thriving Wt cadre.
References
1. Prout in a Nutshell - 21, Your Mission
2. Prout in a Nutshell - 21, Your Mission
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