Baba
Degraded Didis
Note: This letter is only for those who have reverence for Sadguru Baba Shrii Shrii Anandamurti ji and try to follow His Ananda Marga ideology.
Namaskar,
Sadguru Baba has given all the ingredients for caring for each and every individual - young and old - and building up a well-knit society. And He has created the Wt cadre to serve humanity and look upon the entire world as their own. Our Wts do not have any unit family; only they have to serve all - everybody, the entire population.
List of sins of some didis
- Sin #1: Sadguru Baba has given the system that our children’s homes are to be gender separated. Dadas are to run homes for boys and Didis are to run homes for girls. They are designed to be single-sex institutions. But Wt Didis are 100% contravening Baba’s system and tearing down the structure of our children’s homes by making them co-ed as those Didis are keen to keep boys. Because Didis think those boys will earn money, and protect and care for them when they are elderly.
- Sin #2: A true Wt sannyasi is to look upon all of creation as the expression of Parama Purusa. They are to embrace this cosmic outlook. But this is completely lost when they adopt a home boy. Because those Didis invariably give preferential treatment to their chosen, adopted boy. They boy is treated as king and all the home girls are regarded as servants as they do all the chores (cooking, sweeping, washing, cleaning etc) and make life comfortable for the boy. Didi wants to ensure the boy remains with her so he is given a royal status. This scene plays into the Indian dogma that boys are stately and girls are less.
- Sin #3: The situation has become so extreme within the ranks of our Wt cadre that Didis who do not adopt a home boy are mocked and disparaged for not being modern. Everything has become upside-down. Right has become wrong, and wrong has become right. The true way to live as a sannyasi is to look upon the entire humanity with equanimity, yet now within WWD those Didis who follow the system and do not adopt a home boy are ridiculed and made to feel that they are outdated and stale.
Debauched Dada is called “papa”
- Sin #4: Wt Didis are sannyasis. But when they adopt a home boy they take on the mundane role of step-mother. But it does not end there. Most often those same Didis are boyfriends who are Dadas. In that case Didi is the step-mother and debauched Dada is called “papa” by the home boy. By this way, those debauched Wts get their animal vrttis satisfied and spoil the integrity of our Wt system.
You would fire the person
Consider for a moment that you are the general supervisor of a foster care home for girls. And you discover that your assistant is breaking the rules by admitting boys into the foster home and giving preferential treatment to those boys, all the while neglecting the girls. When all this is brought to light, then as the general supervisor of the home you will have no option but to fire that assistant.
And verily that is the case with our Wt Didis. They are blatantly contravening Guru’s system by adopting home boys, creating a co-ed children’s home, and giving regal status to the boy prince. Given the above analogy, there is only one option. That didi must wholly mend her ways or face dismissal.
Conclusion
Baba has given the perfect system to heal humanity’s wounds and create a brilliant human society. But it will only work if His teachings and guidelines are followed. If Wts fail to adhere to their vow of renunciation and contravene their conduct rules by adopting home boys etc, then that spoils everything and creates a downward spiral. And sadly, that is what we are currently facing in our AMPS. Wt Didis are concerned with becoming worldly step-mothers than guiding the society as true sannyasis.
In Him,
Madhurii
(Mary McDermott)
~ In-depth study ~
Ananda Marga ideology guides us, “Sannyásins are not the ones living for their bellies alone. They are serving the society.” (1)
Reference
1. Ananda Vacanamrtam - 30, Self-Realization and Service to Humanity
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