Baba
Bad way to run children’s home
Note: This letter is only for those who have reverence for Sadguru Baba Shrii Shrii Anandamurti ji and try to follow His Ananda Marga ideology.
Namaskar,
One of Baba’s key rules is that boys and girls should grow up separately. Home boys will be raised by male managers or Dadas, and home girls will be cared for by female managers or Didis. Often, children first come in our custody at a tender young age – and in each case they should be placed in a gender-appropriate home.
Unfortunately, some female wts, who go against the moral codes, have greater attraction for the boys; it seems they get some kind of animal satisfaction from raising boys of 4 – 5 yrs of age. Their animal instinct grows more. And that is what we see happening with Didi D. Still Didi D clutches on to him very tightly.
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This type of nepotism sets a very bad precedent. Because Didi D is so engrossed with her attachment for the boy that she could not care about her main duties of acarya life. In that way so many dharmic works have been overlooked.
Many Didis are keeping boys with them
The case of Didi D keeping this boy in her close proximity has triggered a very negative trend in our AMPS where many Didis are keeping boys in their company. Yet the clear-cut directive of Guru is that boys will be in a children’s home run by Dadas, and girls will be in a children’s home with a Didi. There is not to be any mixing of the sexes in this regard.
Ruining the sanctity and puts girls at risk
Just see what a negative effect this mixing of the sexes has. In the very same children’s home where the boy was staying, a few years back one of the teenage girls ran off with a neighborhood boy. Some naive persons will think, “What does this have to do with the boy?” But keeping the boy as a permanent resident of the girls children’s home, and in the company of all the girls, is a distinct infringement. As he is around all the time he gossips with them and touches them.
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So again: All overseas monies must be cut; that is the only way to stop this massive landslide, i.e. Didi's irresponsible and bad dealing fully contravenes Guru's mandates.
Why centre has been unable to intercede
Here the main point of this letter is that the introduction of boys into a girls children's home run by Didis contravenes Baba's guideline and disrupts the children's home. The reason why Centre does not step in and intercede is because many of those Dadas are already involved in illicit affairs of their own and thus lack the moral strength and courage to take action. So they become passive facilitators of the debacle in those children's homes.
Margiis come forward and make hue and cry
The only option left is for margiis to come forward and take direct action. Margiis must demand that police interview the children to hear from them directly what is going on. The situation is that dire. In any civilised land, child abuse is a punishable offense and not reporting it is also a crime. The time has come to boldly to step up and examine this unfortunate and tragic situation.
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Grown male in lives midst didis
Here everyone should be clear that Didiji is not a family person. She is a yogic nun of Ananda Marga Pracaraka Samgha - a renunciate. By keeping a grown male in her midst she is not following the conduct rules of an avadhutika. So her dealing is highly objectionable. If a family person is living with the opposite sex that is completely normal; for a nun it is completely abnormal. If one cannot follow the rule then they should give up the dress. Didi's conduct and dealing must be that of a yogic nun / avadhutika. That is the point at hand.
Caryacarya states, "It should be remembered that a woman’s friend is a woman and a man’s friend is a man." (1)
WT conduct rules states: “One should not look at the face of the opposite sex.” (2)
WT conduct rules states: "Under no circumstances should the purity of the body and mind be polluted." (3)
Conclusion
This type of unfortunate incident where our home girls run off with the opposite sex happens when the given codes and rules are not followed. Then the path of degeneration opens up wide. To stop all such incidents, this letter is one small effort.
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Namaskar,
In Him,
Sister Kamala’
References
1. Caryacarya, part 1, Social Relationship between Men and Women
2. 37 Workers Rules, Point #15
3. 32 Rules for Avadhu'tikas, pt #30
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