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(नोट :- इस श्रेणी में जारी पत्रों का यह दूसरा भाग है ,पहले पत्र की लिंक नीचे दी गई है। )
पहले
पत्र में बताया गया है कि आनंदमार्ग वैवाहिक पद्धति किस प्रकार अतुलनीय और
समाज के लिए बाबा का विशेष आशीष है। आनंदमार्ग की क्रांतिकारी वैवाहिक
पद्धति अन्तर्जातीय शोषणरहित , किसी प्रकार के दहेज़ के बिना लिए-दिए,
समाजनिर्माण पर आधारित, गॄहस्थों के द्वारा ही आयोजत की जाती है | इसमें
किसी पुरोहित की आवश्यकता नहीं होती। इसके अलावा आनंदमार्ग में हम भाषण
देते और चर्चा करते रहते हैं कि किस प्रकार हमारे मार्ग में बिना किसी खर्च
के शादियां होती हैं--पर इस सबके उलटे अन्य समाजों और सम्प्रदायों में
दहेज़ और पुरोहितों की फीस में बहुत खर्च करना पड़ता है। परन्तु आजकल कुछ
दादा लोग इन तथ्यों को भुला चुके हैं।मार्ग के लोभी पुरोहितगण विवाह पर
टेक्स लाद रहे हैं।
कुछ
दादाओं ने नव विवाहित वर-वधुओं से फीस लेने का नियम बना कर एक डोग्मा लाद
दिया है कि यदि वे तथाकथित आशीर्वाद, DMS में pp दादा से लेना चाहते हैं,
तो उन्हें फीस देनी होगी। इस प्रकार वे गलत नियम लागू कर रहे हैं कि
आशीर्वाद लेने के लिए धन देना आवश्यक है।
परन्तु बाबा ने यह कभी भी
नहीं किया। नव विवाहितों के लिए DMC में बाबा का आशीर्वाद लेने के लिए, कभी
भी कोई फीस नहीं ली गयी। चाहे गरीब हों या अमीर सब पर उनकी अहेतुकी कृपा
रहती थी। कुछ दादाओं ने यह प्रथा डोग्मा वाले सम्प्रदायों से अपना ली हैं।
सम्प्रदायिक पुरोहितों द्वारा जन्म, विवाह और मृत्यु या किसी भी धार्मिक
उत्सवों के समय लम्बी चौड़ी फीस ली जाती है।
भूतकाल
में शंकराचार्य ने हिन्दू पुरोहितों को आर्थिक मदद देने की पद्धति का
प्रचलन प्रारम्भ किया था जिसमे सामान्य जनता धार्मिक उत्सवों, मृत्यु के
समय के आयोजनो, विवाह और जन्म आदि के समय उन्हें आर्थिक मदद करने का नियम
बनाया गाया। प्रत्येन कार्यक्रम के आयोजन हेतु पुरोहितों की अनिवार्यता
बनाई गयी और उन्हें इस कार्य के लिए फीस भी निर्धारित की गई। समय बीतने के
साथ इस व्यवस्था में लगातार बृद्धि होती गई और प्रत्येक सामाजिक समारोह में
कर्मकाण्डीय पूजा करने और सलाह कार्य के लिए पुरोहितों को फीस देकर उनकी
सेवाएं लिए जाने का अकाट्य नियम बन गया।
बाबा
ने , चाहे दीक्षा हो या पर्सनल कांटैक्ट , बच्चे का नामकरण हो या धर्मं
समीक्षा, गृह प्रवेश या अखंड कीर्तन किसी भी कार्यक्रम में, मुफ्त में ही
सब काम होते रहने कि व्यवस्था उन्होंने बनाई है। कभी भी किसी भी कार्यक्रम
में किसी भी आचार्य को कोई भी फीस नहीं दी जाती। फीस आनंदमार्ग की पद्धति
के विपरीत है, पूर्णकालिक कार्यकर्ताओं ==kii सहायता करने के लिए दान की
व्यवस्था बनाई गई है पर शादी जैसे कार्य में किसी भी प्रकार की राशि लिए
जाने की प्रथा नही है। पर वह सब अब बदल रहा है , ज्वार लौट रहा है। अब
नव-विवाहितों को पुरोधा प्रमुख के आशीर्वाद हेतु धन देना पड़ता है।
जब
आनंदमार्ग में ज़बरन विवाह कि फीस ली जायेगी तब हो सकता है अधिकांश लोग
विवाह ही न करें | और समाज के बंधन से मुक्त रहकर बच्चे पैदा करें , परिवार
समाप्त हो जाएँ और बच्चों के पिता की कोई जिम्मेवारी, उनके पालन पोषण में न
रहे। इस प्रकार समाज का अधोपतन अवश्यम्भावी है। भगवान शिव ने बच्चों के
पालन पोषण सही ढंग से होते रहने के लिए ही विवाह की प्रणाली, समाज को दी थी
ताकि समाज का स्थायित्व बना रहे | और पुरुषों के अनुत्तरदायित्व पूर्ण
व्यवहार को समाप्त किया जा सके। बाबा ने इसे और अधिक परिमार्जित किया और
विवाह पद्धति में क्रांतिकारी परिवर्तन ला दिए।
और अब कुछ वरिष्ठ
दादा लोग इस पवित्र पद्धति पर विवाह-टेक्स लगा रहे हैं। जो लोग इस टेक्स को
नहीं दे पायेंगे वे विवाह ही नहीं करेंगे। पुत्रियां वधुएं बनने की इच्छअ
मज़बूरी में त्याग कर आत्महत्या का वरण करने लगेंगीं।
इतना ही नहीं ,
भविष्य में यह टेक्स इतना विकराल रूप ले लेगा कि वह परिवार को आजीवन
विकलांग वना देगा | ठीक वैसा ही जैसा दहेज़ प्रथा में बेटी कि शादी करने के
लिए लोग जीवन भर अपनी आवश्यकताएं घटाते हुए धन एकत्रित करते रहते
हैं--भविष्य में यह टेक्स इतना विकराल रूप ले लेगा।
Hindi Readers: Please watch for the third part of this series: लालची पुरोहित विवाह टैक्स.
To: AnandaMargaNewsBulletin
From: madhusudan
Date: Wed, 25 Dec 2013 15:55:32
Subject: Greedy Priests of Marga Imposing Marriage Tax - part 2
Baba
GREEDY PRIESTS OF MARGA IMPOSING MARRIAGE TAX
~ PART 2 ~
(Note: This is the second part of this on-going series. A link to the
first letter is appended below. All text in brown is cited material
from part 1. - Eds)
Namaskar,
The prior letter enlisted several reasons why our Ananda Marga marriage
system is wholly unique and stands as Baba's special blessing upon
society. To review, the revolutionary marriage system as given in Ananda
Marga is inter-racial, exploitation-free, devoid of dowry, based on
society building, and run by family people, not priests.
Plus, in our Ananda Marga we would commonly give speeches and talks
about how in our AM marriages there are no expenses, in stark contrast
to the various religions where dowries or large fees to priests are
made. These are some of the key and fundamental elements that make it an
ideal system.
But nowadays all this is being jeopardised by the actions of a few dadas.
HOW A MARRIAGE TAX HAS BEEN IMPOSED
Certain Dadas have created and imposed the dogma
wherein newly married margiis must pay a surcharge or fee if they wish
to receive a so-called blessing from PP Dada during DMS etc. They are
implementing the bogus rule that money is needed in order to get a
"blessing."
Yet Baba never did like this. No payment was ever needed for newly
married couples to receive His divine ashirvad (blessing) during DMC.
There was never any tax or fee, just His causeless grace. Rich or poor,
all had equal opportunity.
But now some Dadas have implemented this new rule. They just dragged it
in from the dogmatic religions of old wherein priests levy huge fees on
the common people for their so-called services whether it be marriages,
births, deaths or any other ritualistic gathering. Always the priests
wanted a big payment - this dogma has always plagued the various
religions. And now some Dadas in AM are doing the same thing.
RELIGIOUS CEREMONY:
PRIESTS PROFIT AT EVERY TURN
In the distant past, Shankaracarya introduced a financial system to
support the Hindu priest class whereby common citizens would pay for
religious functions and occasions like death ceremonies, marriages etc.
For each and every gathering that required the presence of a priest,
there was a fee or tax. Over time there was a ripple effect and it
became a multi-tiered financial structure where the people had to pay
for every social ceremony, as well as ritualistic worship and counsel.
BABA DESIGNED ANANDA MARGA CEREMONIES TO BE FREE
Baba never ever appreciated this approach and that is why all such
endeavours in Ananda Marga are always free: initiation, baby naming
ceremonies, PC, dharma samiiksa, house blessings, akhanda kiirtan and
all our programs. No one ever pays an acarya for a particular social
function. This is against the Ananda Marga system. There an avenue to
financially support the WT structure but that donation-based approach is
wholly independent of charging for social ceremonies like marriages
etc. Every ceremony and social function in Ananda Marga is free of cost.
But now all that is changing - the tide is turning. Now newly married couples have to pay to receive PP's "blessing".
SEE WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN FUTURE:
PEOPLE IN ANANDA MARGA MAY NOT MARRY
When a dogmatic fee or tax is imposed on our Ananda Marga marriage
system, then some people may opt not to get married ever. Instead they
will engage in relations outside the social bond of marriage. And they
will give birth to children outside of a family structure where fathers
are apt not to share responsibility in their raise of their offspring.
This will bring about the further demise of society.
Lord Shiva introduced the system of marriage to protect children and put
an end to libertine relations. And Baba further refined and
revolutionized the marriage system.
And now some top Dadas are threatening this sacred system by imposing a
tax or fee to receive a marriage blessing. Those who cannot afford it
may opt not to marry at all. Daughters - wishing to be brides - may even
resort to suicide etc.
But not only that, the tax that is being imposed today will swell and
multiply into something really huge that will cripple a family for a
lifetime. Just as happened with the dowry system wherein a family had to
save their money for an entire lifetime and curtail basic needs to get
their daughter married.
PP's MARRIAGE BLESSING TAX GOES TO GROUP LEADERS
OTHER DADAS PROFIT FROM OTHERE CEREMONIES ETC
Now a fee of upwards of RS10,000 is being charged by a group's PP Dada
to get his "marriage blessing." In this process, that PP Dada is just a
puppet in the hands of those running that particular group. All monies
and fees will go directly to those group leaders.
This has set the stage for other levels of Dadas to impose their fee and
get a payment in the marriage process. Some will charge for introducing
the couple and others will charge for performing the ceremony. It is
not difficult to see where this is going. Certainly not every Dada will
engage in this, but when even a few do it is enough to spoil the entire
system.
Our marriage system is designed to be free of any and all costs, yet now
with the imposition of a payment to get PP's so-called blessing, things
are heading in the wrong direction. Becuase we are also witnessing how
some Wts are charging margii families for performing shraddha
ceremonies, while other Wts will not attend a retreat or akhanda kiirtan
unless they are assured a solid payment from the organisers. Theses are
are "spillover" of the PP Dada marriage tax. Other Dadas are sizing up
how they too can profit from various Ananda Marga social functions -
verily this is already going on.
Charging fees for attending programs and performing ceremonies has been
such a big money-maker for some Dadas that they have become tied to this
easy way of life. Until and unless, there is a strong and united
resistance by family margiis, those select Dadas will continue to
exploit in this way. They will levy their fees and taxes whenever and
wherever possible. For them it is easy money.
UNFORTUNATE RIPPLE-EFFECT OF BOGUS MARRIAGE TAX
Now our Ananda Marga is marching down the road paved by dogmatic Hindu
priests. For the various groups, their chosen PP became a stooge in the
hands of the group leaders. This started the marriage blessing tax and
it will not be long before some more Dadas open up their own marriage
stalls at DMS and charge for marital advice, recommendations,
engagements, ceremonies and services. They will charge a fee every step
of the way - including initiation into Ananda Marga.
Such Dadas may even demand a new dress (from head to toe including eye
glasses) in exchange for performing the marriage. And if they did 5
marriages in one weekend or one month, then they will sell the extra
clothes for a profit.
The same Hindu dogma which has littered Kashi, Varanasi, Puri,
Rameshvaram, Dwarka, Ayodhya, Gaya, Deoghar and Prayag will infest our
Ananda Marga marriage system. That is the very real threat. In that case
marriage will become one exorbitant affair that weighs heavy on the
public pocket so people will avoid marriages altogether and pursue
sensual relations outside of marriage, leave children unattended to, and
tragically, we will be back to that pre Lord Shiva era or become a
mirror image of today's materialistic culture where having children out
of wedlock is common. It will be just like what is happening now in
materialistic regions.
That is why no money should be associated with our Ananda Marga marriage
system. Otherwise the results will be nothing short of disastrous. We
should stop the current indiscretions immediately and set our Marga back
on the right path - without delay.
PP IS JUST PUPPET AND FIGUREHEAD - HE CANNOT BLESS
BEST IS TO DEPEND 100% ON BABA
Most definitely, a marriage blessing should be available to newly
married people. But why should they go to PP Dada for such a "blessing".
Firstly they should not be forced to pay Purodha Pramukha, i.e. those
group leaders, and secondly at present PP Dada is just a figurehead -
not a dharmika. So why get the blessing of PP. That has no value.
The better way is to get the blessing done by any sincere, local senior
margii who has sacrificed for the great cause. There is no need to get
the blessing from various opportunists who are fighting for the post and
dividing the organisation.
Or one can simply depend on Baba - that might be the best approach of
all. Though it certainly is acceptable to seek out the blessing of one
true dharmika in Ananda Marga.
But to run after the blessing of PP Dada is just meaningless. Especially
when PP is just a puppet of the ruling regime. We must not allow PP's
so-called blessing to become one ritual in Ananda Marga.
Better to just seek out any genuine margii in your local unit.
HOW BABA GRACIOUSLY PERFORMED MARRIAGE BLESSING
During DMC and select other occasions, Baba would graciously arrange for
marriage blessings. The newly married couple would come in front of
Baba with with malas and do pranam to Baba as He was seated on the dais.
Then Baba would hold take their hands in His hands and touch their
malas as well. And He would bless them by saying, "Be like Shiva and
Parvatii..." - many sample blessings are enlised below. Then Baba would
give both malas to the bride, and the couple would do pranam to Sadguru
Baba and exit the stage.
Note: Here below are transcriptions of some of the many ways that Baba
would express His blessing. it should be udnerstood that Baba would
address brides from the west different from Indian brides. OFten He
would address overseas sisters as "My little girl", whereas He might
address Indian sisters as "Mother." Thus no need to translate "My little
girl" into Hindi, or vice versa.
(A) Be like Shiva and Pa’rvatii. Do all your worldly, mental, and
spiritual duties with proper zeal. Like Shiva and Pa’rvatii.
Kalya’n'amastu
My little girl, keep these garlands with you as your personal property.
(B) Be like Shiva and Parvatii. Let your life be an ideal life, an ideal physical, mental, and spiritual life. Kalya’n'amastu.
(C) Be like Shiva and Parvatii, and do all your duties— physical, mental, and spiritual, with a ta’ntrika zeal.
(D) Strictly adhere to the cult of Shiva and Parvatii. Be great by your sa’dhana’, service, and sacrifice.
(E) इस जगत् में हर पार्वती के समान रहोगे | सामाजिक, मानसिक, आध्यात्मिक,
हर क्षेत्र में, तान्त्रिक आदर्श के अनुसार रहोगे | तुम्हारे आचरण से लोग
हर पार्वती को याद करें | रखो लो, माँ, यह अपने पास रख लो |
(F) इस संसार में हर-पार्वती के समान रहो | अपना कर्त्तव्य करते रहो |
तुमसे मानव समाज की सेवा हो, कल्याण हो, तुम्हारा भी कल्याण हो | लो, माँ |
इसे अपने पास रख लो |
(G) इस दुनिया में हर पार्वती के समान रहो | कर्त्तव्य करते रहो, तुमसे
विश्व की सेवा हो, कल्याण हो, और तुम दोनों का भी कल्याण हो | रखो लो, माँ,
यह अपने पास रख लो |
(H) हर पार्वती के समान रहो | कर्त्तव्य करो, दुनिया की सेवा हो तुमसे, कल्याण हो, और तुम दोनों का भी कल्याण हो |
[माला मार्गी बहन को देते हुए |] रख लो माँ |
(I) जाओ माँ ! हर पार्वती के समान रहो | तुम्हारी सेवा से, तुम्हारे कर्म
से समूचा विश्व का कल्याण हो, और तुम दोनों का भी कल्याण हो | शुभमस्तु |
[माला] लो माँ ! अपने पास रखना |
HOW BLESSING SHOULD BE DONE NOWADAYS
Nowadays, when going for Guru's marriage blessing, a senior trusted margii - devoted to Baba - will state:
"By Baba's grace, be like Shiva and Parvatii. Let your life be an ideal
life, an ideal physical, mental, and spiritual life. By Baba's grace,
may there be eternal peace."
There is no other way, because that sadhaka is merely an instrument in Baba's hand. Only Guru can actually bless.
Unfortunately, these days PP Dada is giving his so-called blessing on
his own behalf: “Let there be...” as if he himself is capable of
authoring such a blessing. This is wrong in two ways. It is just done
for business purposes and the acquirement of money, and secondly no
human being can bless anyone.
So, why seek out the so-called blessing of a figurehead leader like PP
Dada who is charging money to satisfy his own greed. That so-called
blessing is impotent.
Margiis must unite and boycott such type of dogma which is discussed in this posting.
Namaskar,
At His feet,
Madhusudan
(Please watch for next installment of this letter...)
Note 1: LINK TO INITIAL LETTER MARRIAGE TAX BY GROUP LEADERS